It’s a fact. Life is busy — for most of us extremely so — and it’s hard to fit everything in. That includes getting to know our neighbors. But if we do carve out some time to get to know them, life-long friendships can be born, goodwill can be created, and problems can be solved before they become a big issue. Today the Windsong Place Blog has tips for being a good neighbor and making new friends.
Be a Good Neighbor
Be thoughtful. Follow the parking rules for Windsong Place. Parking in the correct place and not your neighbor’s space creates goodwill. Let your guests know ahead of time where they can park. And park well — inside the lines — to make getting in cars easier for everyone.
Be clean. Keep shared spaces clean, and make sure your personal belongings don’t overflow into communal areas.
Be considerate. This can take on many forms. One of the most appreciated by neighbors is in regard to noise. A good rule of thumb is to keep music, TV, and loud conversations down after 9 pm, and to not use loud machines, such as vacuums or power tools, early in the morning. If you are throwing a party let your neighbor know in advance.
Make New Friends
Be friendly. One of the simplest things we can do is be friendly. Offering a smile and a “hello” is an easy thing to do that will help create a positive energy and build rapport with your neighbors.
Be neighborly. Share a plate of cookies, a loaf of fresh-baked bread, or part of your haul from the local farmers’ market. Invite neighbors over for a meal or party.
Be helpful. There’s a pretty good chance you’ve seen someone moving in or out of your apartment community. This is a great way to get to know new neighbors. Help them move boxes and talk to them about where they moved from and why they moved to Williamsville, NY. It’s a great way for them to feel welcome as well an easy way for you to make friends.
Be inviting. Maybe you see the same few people around the apartment community and always say hi to each other — take the chance to invite one of those people over for a game night. This is a non-threatening activity where friendships can be made.
For some people friendships come more naturally, for others it can be more difficult. Doing some of these simple things can help to make it more natural. Let things flow and enjoy the feeling of community and comradery between neighbors.
Do you know your neighbors? How do you make friends with those who live nearby? Let us know in the comments. Thanks for reading!
